Salam Alaikum !!!
Hello my sisters I have returned. My life had become so busy that I was unable to post, but I have managed to set aside a time just for posting. Thank you so much for the sisters who have contacted me, it meant a lot to me.
Well I will jump right in to my topic for today.

My topic is the puffy Khaleeji hijabs, personally I LOVE the look of them, but I have been doing my research and the Hadith book Sahih Muslim says: "...the women who would be naked in spite of their being dressed, who are seduced (to wrong paths) and seduce others with their hair high like humps. These women would not get into Paradise and they would not perceive the odour of Paradise, although its fragrance can be perceived from such and such distance (from great distance)". I am kicking myself for making that loofah volumizing hair band. I never considered the hijab to be "faking" more hair. I just thought it was trendy. I go to a predominantly white college in Texas, and after 9-11 people are very uncomfortable around hijabies. I stopped wearing black abayas with black hijabs; I try never to leave the house without a burst of color. It isn't about having men's lustful eyes on me, it is about making those not use to mu slims more comfortable, and about me feeling safe when I walk to my car at night. Am I wrong for this? please let me know your opinion
Ma'assalama for now